The pros and cons of having a family dog

The pros and cons of having a family dog

When we first brought our puppy cocker spaniel home in 2012, he was eight weeks old. We named him Max and we were so excited to have a new addition to our home, which was then only occupied by the hubs and I. We treated him like our first child, we spoilt him rotten and our weekends were dedicated to all-day walks in the country and visits to country pubs where he would get just as fussed by the other punters.

The pros and cons of having a family dog

Back then, the hubby worked from home and Max used to sleep under his desk all day, only to be woken for treats and his two walks across our local golf club or through the fields nearby. We spent hours teaching him new tricks and would feed him our leftovers on a daily basis. On Sundays we even used to make him his own roast dinner…we would never leave him alone for longer than four hours and he literally had the run of the house – our bed included.

And then we got married, moved house, the hubby stopped working from home and we HAD A BABY. To say that Max was suddenly pushed to one side is an understatement. Our bed was now out of bounds, dog food became his only diet, and those daily walks that once felt so idyllic suddenly became a HUGE CHORE.

Introducing a new born baby…

It probably didn’t help that Taylor was born in the midst of winter and I remember having to bundle her up every dark morning after another shit night’s sleep and step outside into the pouring rain. Max is not what you’d call a patient kind of dog and as soon as he gets the gist that he’s about to go out for a walk he just stands there barking at you. He doesn’t care if you can’t find the rain cover to the pram or if you’ve had a poonami episode. Trying to push along a buggy with one hand whilst holding onto a lead attached to a wappy dog on the other is not really that much fun…And then mid afternoon comes and you have to do it all again. It’s like a school run every day, only it’s for our four legged furry child.

The challenges of a toddler and a dog

I wish I could say that the dog walks got a lot easier when Taylor started to walk herself, but unfortunately that wasn’t the case. Of course she refused to get into her buggy which meant that poor Max would probably go 100 meters for every hour we spent out of the house…Other times I simply had to force her into her buggy or Trike, kicking and screaming so that Max could at least have a decent run.

And before you start feeling sorry for Max, let me tell you that it worked both ways. Endless times did I stand pushing Taylor on the swing or helping her up the slide whilst Max sat outside the play area barking his head off at me to leave (despite us walking him for half an hour to get to the park). It all got a little embarrassing.

Having a family dog

Before I completely put you off I should probably point out that Max is a working breed and needs a hell of a lot of exercise. And Taylor is a feisty breed who is basically ready to move out at the grand old age of two. I’m sure not every owner of a toddler and family dog has the same experience…

And I can confirm that as our little toddler gets older, life with Max is getting gradually easier again. Dog walks are much more fun now that Taylor can walk at a (relatively) decent pace. And there are honestly lots of other pros too:

The Pros

1. The love between a child and their dog will make you melt

Every morning Taylor gets so excited about getting Max out of his bed and will often stand in front of him with her arms out saying ‘cuddle!’ This is very different from the baby days when she just used to swipe him and pull at his fur. Max still hasn’t forgotten those days, but he’s gradually getting better now that he’s realised she’s an actual human being who can also feed him food. He has always been so gentle and patient with her and I love the idea of them growing up together.

The pros and cons of a family dog

2. Dogs help kids develop a love of the outdoors

Taylor has always loved being outdoors and I believe that having Max has played a huge part in this. I admit that if we didn’t have a dog to get us out, there are plenty of days that we would’ve spent indoors. She loves going out for dog walks and will often bring me her coat and wellies when she thinks it’s overdue. She’ll also take a day in the garden any day over TV time and loves throwing the ball for Max (or at least trying to).benefits of having a family dog

3. They’re good for kids’ health

It’s been proven that kids with pets are half as likely to develop common allergies and have better immunity to illness than kids who don’t have pets. Family dogs are a healthy addition to any household.

4. They make great play mates and bring the family together…

Without question Taylor finds Max the funniest in our house. Max is often the source of spontaneous play and will bring the family together for a mad half hour whilst we chase him to get back a toy of Taylor’s or a ball we were playing with. When she was younger, Max added a whole new level of fun to blowing bubbles as he would frantically jump and try and catch them all – it was the source of one of Taylor’s earliest uncontrollable giggling sessions…there’s no question that dogs add fun, laughter and love to a family.

A family dog

So, is it a good idea to have a dog with kids?

I admit that there have been (numerous) times when I’ve resented having a dog over the past two years and it certainly has made some days a lot more challenging than they otherwise would’ve been. If I’d known what I know now, it pains me to admit that we probably wouldn’t have had Max before starting a family, or we would’ve at least considered a lower maintenance breed.

However, having a dog in the family really does bring so much and so many of our memories wouldn’t be the same without Max. I adore watching Taylor and Max together and the bond that is growing between them – and I know this will only grow stronger as they both get older. Dogs definitely complete a family and if your lifestyle can accommodate a dog, they give so much more than they take. Just make sure you do your research and you can dedicate the time that they deserve. And be prepared for the challenging periods – especially with young kids…Not every day will be a walk in the park!

Do you have a family dog? Did you find it a challenge with young children or have you loved every minute?


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    Sunita - Lucky Things
    January 19, 2017 at 2:23 pm

    Ah you’re a legend for looking after a dog and a toddler! 😉 It must be cool seeing the two of them hang out. Your daughter has her own bodyguard! I know my hubby would love it if we got a dog one day. #coolmumclub
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      Natalie Mudd
      January 19, 2017 at 9:00 pm

      Aw they are fab to have around, but definitely can add to the load! 🙂

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    January 19, 2017 at 6:21 pm

    aw I love this! We had our colliexlab for years before we had our daughter, it took about a year for her to come round to the baby! Her nose was definitely put out of joint by the new arrival! Then last year we got a second dog, a rescue border collie. So both working breeds with SHED LOADS of energy like yours! I never resented having our colliexlab and going for walks – I am a dog walker, so I have to baby or not! But I questioned my judgement and sanity on our newest doggy family member! She’s brilliant with us, but has so many issues! Thankfully they are resolving and we have a life again. My daughter also LOVES being outside, so much so I’m looking at outdoor nursery for her. Plus she adores the dogs, the new one is her dog – she tells me regularly. They are also the funniest ‘people’ in the house! So glad you have a happy home with your dog and daughter, they are both cuties!

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      Natalie Mudd
      January 19, 2017 at 8:59 pm

      Oh wow, I;m really not sure I could manage two dogs – I think I’d go crazy! But it definitely is getting easier as the toddler grows older. Outdoor nursery sounds like a fab idea, I haven’t heard of those before. Glad you’re resolving the issues with your newest doggy. They do give so much really 🙂 x

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    January 19, 2017 at 9:37 pm

    Loved this – some of it resonated with having a cat! I wrote a post about how I went off the cat after having a baby! Okay, okay, so a cat maybe isn’t as much work as a working dog but you get my drift…
    My Mum bought a labrador puppy when the Mouse was tiny – it’s been a bittersweet journey. We all love her, especially Tigs…but she is SO boisterous…it’s been a bit tricky being around her with the mouse being so tiny. In all honesty, it’s put me off the idea! The hubby on the other hand is convinced one day we’ll have a dog…
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      January 19, 2017 at 9:38 pm

      Oooh PS Thanks for linking to #coolmumclub
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      Natalie Mudd
      January 22, 2017 at 9:29 pm

      Aw labrador puppies are so cute but I’ve heard they can be hard work! A bit like cocker spaniels probably! To be honest, if we could dog share that would be the perfect scenario. I do love Max but admit that I may have been a bit put off the idea of a dog had someone else in the family had one first! But he is such a lovely dog though and great with Taylor despite her often unwanted attention xx

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    January 26, 2017 at 5:44 pm

    So brave. Kids and pets! I so cannot do that with 4 of them lol.
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      Natalie Mudd
      February 2, 2017 at 11:15 am

      No, I reckon the dog would have to go if we had four!! 😉

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    February 2, 2017 at 11:41 am

    Sounds like a plan. My lot are forever asking me about pets, and I feel kind of guilty not letting them. As they say though, dogs are for life not just Christmas!
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    Hans Aberg
    February 9, 2017 at 8:56 am

    Aww!! Your girl and dog look so cute in picture. I have a dog (Bruno), he is Jack Russell Terrier. He is amazing and funny. He loves to play with my 2 year old son. Whenever I am not around he looks after him the way I do with my son.

    I just adore their relationship. Thanks for sharing the post. 🙂

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